Men
and women flirt differently, for different reasons and expect different
outcomes to the flirting. However, if you put aside that outcome and
flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to different
opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover but if that doesn’t
work out you could meet someone who becomes a good friend and who knows
who she might introduce you to. Keep your options open.
After you have exchanged glances and smiles across a room and you are
fairly confident that SHE thinks that she might like to get to know you
better, send a drink to her. But remember that ALL you are buying is a
drink. Don’t expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just
to send someone a drink, watch when she receives it and smile, then look
away – look back again later to show your interest.
If you find yourself invited to her table, keep you mind on the
conversation and not on getting a date with her. Most women want to know
what kind of person they are going out with long before they actually
go out with them. Make an effort to get to know her and give her the
opportunity to get to know you before diving in for a date.
Do not ever approach two women in the same group. No woman wants to feel
like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the
same group. You look like a loser and the women may think you are
desperate and looking for any port in a storm. Even if you are, don’t
show it.
When you compliment a woman make certain that it is a genuine
compliment. There’s nothing worse than someone giving out a load of
overblown lines. Everyone has something great about them, notice that
and compliment them genuinely.
Do not ever put your hands on a woman uninvited. Some women have no
objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, others are horrified by it.
Respect the person until you have had the opportunity to know more about
her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but should be confined to
the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and NOT touching, until
you know more. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the
reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat.
Respect yourself at all times. Women always fall for men who are that
little bit unreachable. Don’t hover or grovel or act desperate. Think of
yourself as special and know what you deserve the very best.
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